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Revocable vs. Irrevocable Trusts: Which is Right for Your Family?

  • Legal Assistant
  • 7 hours ago
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Freedom vs. Protection: Revocable or Irrevocable?


Choosing between a Revocable and an Irrevocable Trust is one of the most important decisions you will make in your estate plan. The right choice depends on your primary goal: do you value flexibility or protection?

1. Revocable Living Trust: The "Flexible" Choice

This is the most popular type of trust for NY and NJ residents.

  • Control: You can change or cancel the trust at any time. You are the boss.

  • Taxation: For tax purposes, the IRS still sees these assets as yours.

  • Primary Goal: To avoid probate court. It ensures your house and bank accounts go to your family instantly without a year-long court battle.


2. Irrevocable Trust: The "Shielded" Choice

Once you transfer assets into this trust, you generally cannot change it or take the assets back easily.

  • Protection: Because you no longer "own" the assets in the eyes of the law, they are generally protected from creditors, lawsuits, and nursing home costs.

  • Taxation: This is a powerful tool for reducing estate taxes for high-net-worth families.

  • Primary Goal: Asset Protection and qualifying for long-term care benefits (Medicaid).

Real NY & NJ Scenarios

Scenario 1: The Manhattan Apartment (Revocable) Mr. Lin owned a condo in Manhattan. He wanted his son to inherit it quickly without the stress of NY Surrogate's Court. He chose a Revocable Trust. The Outcome: Mr. Lin maintained full control while alive. When he passed, his son inherited the condo in weeks, avoiding the typical 12+ month probate delay in NYC.
Scenario 2: The New Jersey Retirement Strategy (Irrevocable) The Smiths in New Jersey wanted to protect their family home from potentially ruinous nursing home costs. The Outcome: They placed their home into an Irrevocable Trust. After passing the state-mandated "look-back" period, the home was shielded. When they eventually needed long-term care, the house remained safe for their children, regardless of medical bills.

Which One Fits Your Life?


  • Choose Revocable if your main concern is making things easy for your heirs while staying in control.

  • Choose Irrevocable if you are worried about lawsuits, estate taxes, or protecting your home from long-term care expenses.

Final Thoughts


A trust is not a "set it and forget it" document; it must be tailored to the specific laws of New York and New Jersey to be effective.

Deciding between these two paths requires a careful look at your financial landscape and your family’s future needs. Don't leave your legacy to chance. Contact our law firm today for a professional evaluation to determine which "shield" is best for your family’s unique story.

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